A
man who disappointed his girlfriend by his poor performance during
their first time s*x has cried out for help as he thinks he has ruined
everything.
A man has been left totally ashamed of himself after his first time
s*x with the girlfriend turned out to be a total disaster, as he could
not last long. He now feels his girl may feel less of him because of the
incident.
Read below:
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My ex and I dated for about 3 months, but we never had s*x. She
wanted to, but I turned her down because I wanted it to be right with
her. We’re both adults (mid-20s), so we’re not kids in high school or
anything. Anyways, she dumped me about a month ago and even though it
killed me inside, I hid it fairly well. We started messing around again
this past weekend. We both missed each other like crazy.
Tonight, we had s*x for the first time together. It just kind of
happened. I regretted not having s*x with her while dating so I took the
first chance I got. I had condoms with me, and that kind of threw her
off a bit. Before I even got the condoms out, she was trying to go
without one. Well, I came within a couple minutes, fooled around with
her, and after awhile we started again. She tried to convince me I had a
condom on and stuck me in her. I don’t understand.
Anyways, we had s*x for awhile but I couldn’t finish. She says she
needs to go to sleep and that her head is pounding (doubt it, she took
ibuprofen beforehand).
Honestly, it was awkward, and it was pretty bad. My ego is bruised,
because I wanted to give her great s*x. She just wasn’t into it.
We outside to smoke and I was kind of an ass-hole. She seemed upset
and said “why did you have condoms with you?” She wanted me to leave,
so I did.
I really have no idea what’s going on. I’m confused about my
feelings now, and I’m sure she is too. I’d hate to think that bad s*x
would ruin everything between us. It’s important to mention that her and
I were INCREDIBLY passionate while we were together. How do I handle
this? What do I do?
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